Seniors & Thanksgiving – Is Mom or Dad Ok?

Having Trouble with Names or Language

Many seniors coping with a cognitive decline have a difficult time remembering people’s names or choosing the right words in a conversation. If you observe that your loved one can’t recall relatives’ names or struggles with language during a discussion, speak to a doctor about next steps.

Irritability

Most people find the Thanksgiving holiday to be an enjoyable time with family and friends. If you notice that your loved one is unusually irritable or reacting adversely to the noise and stimulation around them, it could be a sign of a developing cognitive issue.

Gently speak with your mom or dad about what is bothering them and see what can be done to make them more comfortable. Consult with their doctor about what you observed so you can determine if any follow up action should be taken.

Sense of Time and Day of the Week

Another symptom of a cognitive issue with an older person is consistent confusion about the date or what time it is. Sundown Syndrome is a condition that makes it difficult for people to know whether it is AM or PM. if you sense that your loved one is confused about the time or date particularly around this time of year, speak with their medical provider as soon as possible.

Depression

Depression around the holiday season is common for many people, but if you notice a sudden change in initiative or mental outlook from your older loved one, it may be something more serious. Depression is a common condition with respect to cognitive decline and sometimes comes on suddenly. 

If your mom or dad is exhibiting signs of depression or a lack of motivation, speak to them lovingly about it. Suggest during the discussion that it might be a good idea to talk with their doctor about it.